Something I absolutely love about this day and age is that everyone is starting to be more honest and open about mental illness, and trying to live the best life possible.
There is still one problem that mothers have to hide. They aren't allowed to admit they may not be fulfilled as a mother.
I am a mother of two. I love them and would do anything for them, but I don't feel like I'm enough as just being a mother.
Being a mom is so hard, it's all consuming and it's tough work. But I still don't feel like that is all I am. I have this hole inside me
When admitting that, most moms look at me like I'm a terrible person. That I shouldn't be feeling that way, and it makes me feel even worse. But I've accepted that this is just who I am. Not all moms feel this way, and that's great for them. But for us moms that still don't feel fulfilled shouldn't be judged, or made to feel bad about themselves because of it.
If you are a mom that feels unfulfilled, there are a few things to do that will help..
Volunteer: everyone feels good when they do something for others. Whether it is for the homeless, or animals, or even don't something for the earth. Any volunteer work will make you feel more fulfilled in life. I personally love fostering dogs. But I someday want to start my own nonprofit to help the earth in some way.
Find a new hobby: I love learning new skills. Recently I've started making jewelry to feel more satisfied with my life. It's been a really fun adventure and has given me something to be excited about.
Take a class: learning something new is a great way to expand your knowledge and feel like you are doing something useful.
Stay at home moms don't usually have much spare time to do things for themselves. But if your feeling unfulfilled, you will start resenting your life. Be sure to make time for yourself and things you like to do so you can have a happier life.
What are some things that help you feel more fulfilled outside of your family?